REALLY?

Has there ever been a moment where you’re just terrified or truly a baby towards things well that’s what I’ve experienced before and this past week. Starting with the past week, me and my best friend decided to go and get her ears pierced. While we are waiting I get a text from her (she is literally sitting next to me) saying that she feels a little scared and is being a big baby right now. First, I didn’t even reply to the text I just looked at her and said, ” It’s really not that bad”. Then, while were waiting for our turn I then ask her if she wants me to come in with her so she won’t be too scared. She said if I wanted to but I decided anyway I would go ahead. Next, it was our turn, the ear piercing literally took 2 minutes and it was over! After it was done she felt relieved and said all she felt was a pinch and that was it.

In certain situations, in my opinion, it’s always good to have a friend who you are really comfortable with to be there with you in those different situations.

Next, going backward to my previous experience, my college graduation. YES, my college graduation I admit that I was literally terrified. Mainly I was terrified, because the day before when we all were practicing the stairs before you walk across the stage were wobbly and unstable to the point where the rail couldn’t support you. So the next morning, I was fine not even thinking about the stairs until someone in my row mentioned them and then all of a sudden that terrifying feeling came back! OMG it got worse all the way until it was time for us to enter and walk to our seats before we walked across the stage. During the ceremony it got worse, because not only was I terrified my whole row was terrified (nothing but females shaking and all you could hear were heels and the speakers). When it was time for us to get up and almost walk across the stage I stood up took a deep breathe and I walked to where the stairs were and when it was time for my name to be called I took my time walking up the steps and by the time I was halfway across the stage I didn’t feel terrified anymore.

Maybe it just takes time to realize that overthinking can not only make you scared but can stress you out alot. By me taking the time and not thinking about those stairs really took the feeling of terror and stress off.

Now, the message I’m trying to get across is to really just calm down, because there are certain situations that we just overthink too much and it becomes a burden upon ourselves at that moment. So, in those moments take the time out and actually calm down or calm down and have a friend with you.

Thank you for reading,

Signed, DearYourLove

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